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Before the Threesome Fantasy Comes True

Before the Threesome Fantasy Comes True

Addi Stewart May 25, 2015 0

When Lovers Meet: Before The Fantasy I am a fortunate, fortunate soul. Because of polyamory, I have enjoyed some relationship and sexual scenarios that the monogamous man may NEVER experience in his entire life.

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What to Do when Sex Gets Stale

What to Do when Sex Gets Stale

Holly May 21, 2015 0

We’ve all been there, whether it’s a new or old relationship, with a primary or secondary partner wherein sex peters out, begins to lose its lustre. So what’s a guy, or gal, to do

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Being Sexually Open to Every Possibility

Being Sexually Open to Every Possibility

Addi Stewart May 18, 2015 0

When You’re Something Else Others Are Not Sometimes, there are signs. You can’t ignore the signs, fellow traveller! Relationships are like vehicles taking a person to the destination of their destiny. And to ignore

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Sharing Partners in Polyamory Relationships

Sharing Partners in Polyamory Relationships

Nick May 14, 2015 0

“Who was that?” I asked my partner after we crossed paths with some guy she knew. “Just a guy I played with,” she told me. “Nothing worthy to report.” It’s true there’s crossover, but

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How Much Trust Do You Need to Start a Relationship

How Much Trust Do You Need to Start a Relationship

Addi Stewart May 11, 2015 0

Polyamory requires a different level of trust for it to operate properly, straight up and down. Monogamous dating can seem like a high-pressure job interview where the applicant for intimacy is scrutinized, analyzed, and

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Tips for Introducing Secondary Partners to Primary Partners

Tips for Introducing Secondary Partners to Primary Partners

Holly May 7, 2015 0

When I talk to poly friends, there’s one thing that all of them do a little differently: introducing their primary to a new secondary partner. Some primaries share secondaries, but many have their own.

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Can You Have Too Many Lovers?

Can You Have Too Many Lovers?

Addi Stewart May 4, 2015 0

Is there such a thing as trying to love too many people? Is there such a thing as trying to have sex with too many people? These questions are similar, but very different. I’d

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How to End a Poly Relationship in 7 Honest Steps

How to End a Poly Relationship in 7 Honest Steps

Addi Stewart April 30, 2015 0

Breakups, the Polyamory Version: “Sorry, babe: this just isn’t working out anymore. It’s not you, it’s us. It’s not me, it’s him. It’s not you, it was the sex club fiasco. It’s not you,

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Asking a Woman Back to Your Place for a Hookup

Asking a Woman Back to Your Place for a Hookup

Holly April 27, 2015 0

If you enjoy casual sex and having women over to hook up with, your apartment should have a sexy feel. Wet towels on the floor and take-out containers on the counter just won’t cut

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Q&A: What It’s Like to be Poly with Children

Q&A: What It’s Like to be Poly with Children

Nick April 23, 2015 0

It’s one thing to juggle the sexual freedom of multiple partners. But does it not get complicated when a poly couple has kids? I recently had a tête-à-tête about it with my poly-mom friend.

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