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Saying Goodbye to a Lover

Saying Goodbye to a Lover

Addi Stewart September 22, 2014 0

TEMPORARY GOODBYES AND PERMANENT GOODBYES Have you ever had to say your last goodbye to a lover? Did you know it was coming, or did you just discover it was goodbye after a tragedy

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Define and Know Your Boundaries in Polaymory Relationships

Define and Know Your Boundaries in Polaymory Relationships

Addi Stewart September 15, 2014 0

Can’t play a game if you don’t know the rules, and you won’t be allowed to play the game if you abandon the players on the court! To apply this analogy to the realm

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Real Life Poly Experience: I’m in a Triad

Real Life Poly Experience: I’m in a Triad

Lola Page September 4, 2014 0

This post comes from Tabitha, a reader in California… I found myself in a triad (three-person relationship) when I fell in love with a guy who was already dating another girl. They had posted

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Age Differences in Polyamory Relationships

Age Differences in Polyamory Relationships

Addi Stewart September 1, 2014 0

Age Against the Machine: Polyamory’s One thing for certain about monogamy… it thrives off of familiarity! People are like “well, THAT person is married, has a two-storey duplex, blue-and-white picket fence, 2.7 children, a

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How to Be a Supportive Poly Partner

How to Be a Supportive Poly Partner

Addi Stewart August 25, 2014 0

Keeping Your Heart’s Head Up: When Lovers Break Down You ever had a moment where you thought everything was going to be absolutely super awesome and perfect… but then it just ALL completely fell

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Scheduling Conflicts in Polyamory Relationships

Scheduling Conflicts in Polyamory Relationships

Addi Stewart August 18, 2014 0

When There is More Demand Than Supply: So Many Lovers, So Little Time This one is for the Advanced Lovers! So, you’ve been living the poly lifestyle for a few months or years now, and

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Managing New Relationship Energy in Polyamory

Managing New Relationship Energy in Polyamory

Lola Page August 7, 2014 0

New Relationship Energy, commonly abbreviated as NRE, is that emotional rush that people get in the early stages of a relationship. It is completely normal for NRE to fade over time as the relationship

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Is There a Breaking Point in Polyamory?

Is There a Breaking Point in Polyamory?

Addi Stewart July 28, 2014 0

Polyamory is a formula for infinity. Besides the basic rules of time and space during the day and night, we can basically do whatever we want with whoever wants to do it with us,

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Odd Man Out: Solo Polyamory

Odd Man Out: Solo Polyamory

Lola Page July 24, 2014 0

The polyamory ideal of total equality across all of your partners, while noble in intent, for the most part doesn’t stand up to close scrutiny in the real world. You’re allowed to have a

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13 Unhealthy Breakups in Polyamory Relationships

13 Unhealthy Breakups in Polyamory Relationships

Addi Stewart June 30, 2014 0

Gracefully Bowing Out vs. Cutting Off Almost as important as “How do you begin your relationships?” is the exact opposite inquiry, and the one that most people don’t really want to think about nearly

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